About

I started on a path I did not choose willingly.  Secondary infertility chose me. 

There were many twists, turns, and dead-ends along the way.  I am an infertile dropout, having failed at multiple rounds of IUI, IVF, and third-party reproduction (donor eggs), and endured years of recurrent miscarriage and unexplained diagnoses. 

In short, I was an RE’s worst nightmare.

We are a family of three, dreaming to be a family of four. 

Domestic adoption is our new path.

I waiver from being crazy excited to totally petrified. 

Here…  I am anonymous, but many of you may know me as a long time member of the ALI community for many years. 

Eventually, I’ll “out” myself on my main blog.  But for now, I am Remy.

This is my story.